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Jan 03

Forget New Years Resolutions

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Conscious Wealth , Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) , Success , Wealth

The beginning of the year is when so many people want to make a fresh start and change habits seen to be destructive to their overall health and well being. And while it is a great symbolic time to make new goals and intentions for the new year, most New Years Resolutions will be forgotten within the first few weeks if not days of having made them.

This year, set yourself up for success by avoiding these 5 common mistakes people make that doom them to failure before they have even begun.

1. Not Being Resolute – A resolution means just that. Being committed to your goal NO MATTER WHAT! Too many people make throw away statements about their New Years Resolutions with no real grit and determination behind them. If you want to change habits that you have had for years you’re going to need a strong will power and plenty of determination. If you really want to change your habits and your results in 2013 in any area of your life, state your goals and intentions as if you mean them. Put real passion into them. Achieving your goals won’t be easy, but it will be worth it.

2. Being Too Vague – Saying you want to quit smoking, lose weight, get fit, be more successful, or whatever your goal is may sound good but you must be much more specific about them. Whatever you want to achieve, quantify it and then put a time frame on it. Write your goals down in specific detail and imagine how it’s going to feel when you achieve them. Keep those goals somewhere where you will see them often to remind yourself of where you’re headed. Being specific and writing your goals down lets your subconscious mind know that you’re serious and you have every intention of achieving what you have written down.

3. What’s Your Why? – You must have a clear vision of why you want to achieve your goals. Just because it sounds good and everybody else is doing it is not good enough. Do you want to quit smoking to ensure you get to grow old and see your kids and grand kids grow up? Do you want to get fit so you can feel stronger and more empowered physically and mentally? Do you want that promotion because of the security it will give your family? Do you want to lose weight so you can look amazing in that cute little outfit again and parade in front of your harshest critics with confidence (that’s generally a girl thing!)?

Have a very specific vision of why you want to achieve your goals and how it’s going to feel when you do and make sure you keep coming back to that. And one more thing, you MUST, MUST, MUST do this for yourself, not to please somebody else.

4. Failing To Plan ……………… is planning to fail. This statement is so true. Whatever you want to change, you need to have a plan to create the new you, especially for when things get a little bit tough. Firstly, how are you going to lose weight and get fit? Go to a gym? Go to a yoga class? Start walking or jogging? Join Weight Watchers? If you want to quit smoking, how are you going to? With patches? NLP? EFT?  And what are you going to do when the alarm goes off 1 hour early for you to go training and you really don’t feel like it? Or when you’re drinking with friends and they’re all smoking? Or when you’re confronted with a table full of all the wrong, but oh so yummy foods? Make a list of all the things you can think of that are going to get you off track and plan what you’re going to do

5. No Accountability – If there is no accountability or consequences to you not achieving those goals then you’re not going to have the fortitude or will power to keep going when things get tough. Have somebody you report back to about your challenges and progress regularly, at least once a week. This could be a buddy to train with or a coach. Find someone who is also really serious about making changes and commit to supporting, encouraging and holding each other accountable to those goals. Have someone you can call when you’re in a week moment who will say to you “Don’t you dare give up!”. Join a mastermind group or create one yourself and treat them like your Board of Directors that you have to report back to about your progress.

Even if you’re reading this and it’s not the beginning of the year, or if you’ve already strayed off path, you can take these steps right now and begin today! Don’t wait for next New Years. Remember, this is not a New Years resolution, but a life time resolution.

These steps will work with any goal you want to achieve. Make sure you do these first before you do anything and set yourself up for success right in the beginning.

Dec 08

The Conscious Wealth Revolution

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Conscious Wealth , Money , Success , Wealth

We are at a critical point in our evolution. In the words of Eckharte Tolle, we either evolve or we die. We are starting to connect more deeply with the truth of who we are, and we are infinite potential, pure spirit, joy, love, freedom. We are everything that we yearn for and (mistakenly) believe we are separate from. And you can have it all with Conscious Wealth.

There is an army of people with big hearts and intentions, who want to make a difference. These people have a message and gift to share, but their mindset and subconscious programming is stopping them from stepping up and leading.Continue reading

Dec 04

You Were Born Rich

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) , Law of Attraction , Money , Sound Healing , Success , Wealth

For centuries, human beings have struggled and strived just to survive. But what if this frustrating relationship with money was being carried out just because of a set of belief systems that are stopping you from receiving it in infinite amounts? What if the truth is you were born rich?

For most people throughout the ages, money has always been an illusive gremlin that plagues our existence. We treat it like a necessary evil and it treats us with contempt, laughing at us and our feeble attempts to attain it, however we can, and hold onto it. But it is slippery in nature, or at least it appears to be. It seems to have a personality all of it’s own, and it appears to choose a very limited number of people to align itself with whilst thumbing it’s nose at the rest of us.

If you want to heal your relationship with money, you must be willing to dive into your past and uncover whatever limiting decisions about wealth and success are hiding away in your subconscious mind sabotaging all your best efforts to live the life you dream of.

This can be very difficult as the programming that controls your relationship with money is buried deep in your psyche and, in spite of everything you try consciously, your belief systems are what determine how much of it you have to have and to hold for your entire life.

Uncovering what these belief systems are is the first challenge and most people live their entire lives never discovering what sinister sabotaging beliefs are plaguing their existence. And to change them you need very specialized information and personal development tools to uninstall the old programs and install new ones.

The two tools that I have found this simplest and most effective are Emotional Freedom Technique and Sound Healing. Together these two techniques have completely transformed my life in every way imaginable, giving me the freedom to live a life of purpose, passion, fulfillment and freedom. Conscious Wealth is wealth in every sense of the word. It is not only possible, you were born knowing you deserved it. It is only the limiting decisions that have been installed in your subconscious along the way that have kept you from it.

Finally, with the help of EFT and Sound Healing, you can release yourself from this destructive relationship with money and achieve all the wealth and success you truly desire and deserve in every area of your life.

You were born rich. You deserve to be wealthy. You are the essence of peace, joy, abundance, love and freedom. The only thing preventing you from experiencing it are the lies you have been led to believe. Embrace the truth and transform your life.

Nov 28

How To Make The Right Decision For You

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Success , Wealth

Indecision, procrastination and regret cause a lot of wasted time and energy, as well as stress and anxiety. And that’s not just in making the decision, it’s also worrying afterwards if you have made the right decision. And these 3 silent killers will sabotage your success your entire life if you let them.

Watch the video below to learn a simple technique to confidently make the right decision for you quickly in any situation.

If you have never developed the skill of being decisive and you worry too much that you’re going to make the wrong decision, you may find yourself stuck and not being able to move forward because of your fear that you’re going to get it wrong.

The truth is you know what the right decision is for you every time you have to make a decision. It’s just that you have lost touch with that intuitive part of you that knows. This technique may take a little practice, but once you get the hang of it you will be able to stop wasting time and energy on what decision to make, and then worrying about whether or not you’ve made the right decision.

To understand what I mean, just close your eyes for a minute and imagine you’re favourite colour. Now as you’re thinking of your favourite colour, become aware of a feeling in your body, or a voice in your head, or a sensation. Get familiar with whatever that is for you because that is your ‘YES’. Now do the same thing with a colour that you don’t like and become familiar with that feeling, sensation, voice, etc, and that is your ‘NO’.

Now practice this with someone you really like and enjoy spending time with. The experience you get is your ‘YES’. And with a person whom you would really rather not spend time with – that is your ‘NO’.

You can practice this simple technique with all kinds of contrasting things and events in your life to become familiar with the difference. Then, when you have to make a decision, all you have to do is ask the question ‘Is this right for me?’ and notice the feedback you get. Whenever I ask that question, I get a clear ‘YES’ or ‘NO’ in my head, but it will probably be different for you because everybody has their own way of experience a confirmation or rejection. I also feel a sense of expansion for a ‘YES’ and contraction for a ‘NO’.

Now, when you have made your decision, you can let go of worrying about the outcome confident in the knowledge that no matter what happens next, you made the right decision for you.

Your intuition is a powerful tool. Develop it and you will have a strong sense of confidence in all areas of your life.

Nov 27

EFT for Inner Peace

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) , Success

Life is flying past at an ever increasing pace. There is always so much to do and not enough time to do it. You feel overwhelmed, frustrated, tired, anxious and stressed. It is only getting worse and it feels like there is no way out.

When did life get so out of control? What happened to having time for yourself? How did you get here? Life wasn’t supposed to turn out this way!

Does any of this resonate with you? If so, then you are just one of the millions of people all around the world feeling exactly the same way. Not that there is any comfort in this.

What if you could have inner peace not matter what was going on in your life? What if feeling peaceful could help you to think more clearly so you could be more efficient and effective and get more done in less time? What if you could actually have some time to relax and chill out every now and again?

You can with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).

The truth is that all those feelings of overwhelm and stress are only overloading your central nervous system and preventing you from thinking clearly which only makes the situation even worse.

By using EFT on these issues on a regular basis you calm the central nervous system and release the stress enabling you to create new habits and over time, you will find you can remain calm and peaceful regardless of what is going on in your life. It’s an extraordinary phenomenon that helps you to be far more effective and efficient, even in a crisis. Then your life doesn’t seem out of control!

So following is an EFT tapping sequence that, when used regularly, will help you to feel calm and peaceful at all times.

Firstly rate the following statement on a scale of 0 to 10, 0 being it’s not true for you at all and 10 being the most true it could possibly be for you.

“My life is out of control and I don’t have enough time to get everything done.”

Now follow this sequence:

Karate Chop:

Even though my life is completely out of control and I feel so overwhelmed and stressed, I deeply and completely love and accept who I am and how I feel.

Even though I never have enough time and so much to do, I choose to love and accept myself and my life just the way it is.

Even though I feel stressed and overwhelmed all the time and I don’t have any time to relax, I deeply and completely love and accept all of me.

Eyebrow: I feel so stressed and overwhelmed

Outside Eye: Life is going so fast, I just can’t keep up

Under Eye: And it just gets worse every day

Under Nose: I never have any time for me

Chin: I would just love some time to relax

Collar Bone: But there’s always so much to do

Under Arm: That’s never going to happen

Top of Head: My life is totally out of control

Eyebrow: I’m running so fast, but seem to be going no where

Outside Eye: I wish I had some time to take a breath and relax

Under Eye: But that’s just seems impossible

Under Nose: How did my life get so out of control?

Chin: I’m so stressed and overwhelmed

Collar Bone: I feel like I’m going to explode

Under Arm: My life is complete chaos

Top of Head: There’s so much to do and never enough time to do it.

Eyebrow: I would love to just have a break

Outside Eye: Even 10 minutes would be nice

Under Eye: I really didn’t expect my life to turn out like this

Under Nose: How did it get so out of control?

Chin: I’m so exhausted

Collar Bone: And I just seem to keep running around in circles

Under Arm: There’s a million things going on in my life

Top of Head: And I just don’t have enough hours to get them all done.

Take a deep breath and now go back and rate the statement:

“My life is out of control and I don’t have enough time to get everything done.”

It will have moved at least a little bit. Keep tapping on these phrases and any others that describe the way your life is and the way you feel about it until you bring that rating down to at least a 2 and then proceed with the following positive tapping round:

Karate Chop:

Even though my life is still out of control, I choose to feel calm and peaceful any way.

Even though I have so much to do and never enough time to do it, I am willing to find a place of peace within me no matter what is happening in my life.

Even though I still feel overwhelmed and stressed because my life is out of control, I choose to feel calm and peaceful no matter what.

Eyebrow: My life is still out of control

Outside Eye: But I choose to feel calm and peaceful anyway

Under Eye: I have so much to do and never enough time

Under Nose: But I choose to access a place of peace within me

Chin: So I can be more effective and get more done

Collar Bone: I have a very busy life with lots of tasks to complete

Under Arm: And I choose to move through my day with ease and grace

Top of Head: I love that my day moves smoothly

Eyebrow: And I accomplish everything I need to with ease and grace

Outside Eye: I am so happy and so grateful

Under Eye: For this deep sense of inner peace that I feel inside

Under Nose: No matter what’s going on in my life

Chin: I love that my life is ordered and I achieve everything I need to with ease and grace

Collar Bone: I’m grateful for the peace I feel inside no matter what is happening in my life

Under Arm: I choose to feel calm and peaceful no matter what

Top of Head: I love feeling calm and peaceful even when I am so busy

Eyebrow: I choose to let go of the chaos and create harmony and balance in my life

Outside Eye: I love feeling a deep sense of peace and calm within

Under Eye: No matter what is going on, I choose to be centred, calm and relaxed

Under Nose: I am confident I can move through my day with ease and grace

Chin: I choose to release this overwhelm and anxiety

Collar Bone: And achieve everything I need to in a calm, peaceful state

Under Arm: I love finding time to relax and enjoy a little me time

Top of Head: I love creating a new paradigm with complete calm and peace within no matter what.

And again, take a deep breath and as you release it, let go of any remaining tension. Now go back and rate the statement:

“My life is out of control and I don’t have enough time to get everything done.”

Keep tapping until you get the rating down to a zero. Old habits die hard, so do this tapping at least every couple of days until you feel a deep sense of peace remaining with you regardless of what else is going on around you. This may take a couple of weeks, but it will be worth it.

Nov 18

Stand On The Shoulders of Giants

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Success , Wealth

You live in a land of giants. The super achievers of our past and present who have pioneered roads of success so you can tread their well worn path. So much of the hard work is done for you already, why would you put years of time and energy into doing what has already been done? Stand on the shoulders of giants so you can build on their success!

Find out more in the video below.

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Success doesn’t have to be hard. If you are finding it tough it’s only because of your limiting beliefs and subconscious programming, and with some determination and the right tools and strategies, that can be changed!

Whomever you admire in the world of the super achievers, make them your mentors. Get your ears and eyes on everything you can of theirs and immerse yourself in their wisdom. Make their success, your success. There is nobody in this world who is better than you, and whatever anybody has achieved you can too.

Don’t settle for anything less than your ultimate dream. Believe in yourself and your ability to achieve anything you set your mind to. It was Napoleon Hill who said, “What ever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve”. And it’s true.

My favorite personal development tools for changing limiting beliefs are Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and Sound Healing. They’re powerful, effective and quick! And when used correctly and consistently, your life will look completely different in a matter of weeks.

Dream big and smooth your path by following in the footsteps of those who have gone before you! Stand on the shoulders of giants!

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To Your Health, Wealth & Happiness,
Marguerita Vorobioff

Nov 14

A Phoenix Rising From The Ashes

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Money , Success

How many stories have you heard about the most successful people in the world who had serious hardship in their lives and lost everything before they really took off and created huge success and wealth in their lives? What is it about almost all the really successful entrepreneurs and their stories of tragedy and destitution before they make it big? Is it like a right of passage or initiation to suffer huge failure before massive triumph?

I know that there is a niggling fear in the back of your mind that, in view of the questions I’ve just asked, maybe you haven’t suffered enough yet to have earned the right to success and riches.

We I’ve got some good news for you. You don’t have to earn the right to be wealthy and successful. You were born deserving everything your heart desired. But here’s the thing, the human psyche is a complex animal, and you have been conditioned, through other peoples belief systems, to keep you from whatever your heart desires. And there are a few things at play here.

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Firstly, success is a habit, which I’m sure you’ve heard before. And our habits, behaviour and the actions we take are what determine our level of success. So if you’re not achieving what you want, you must change your habits, behaviour and actions, right? But this causes conflict in the human subconscious because it doesn’t like change and it doesn’t like the unknown. It’s not safe! So no matter how much you dislike your current situation, your subconscious will do everything it can to resist you making those changes and play it safe. That is, until your situation escalates to a critical level and then it’s all hands on deck to try and turn your ship around before you plunge over the edge of the rapids.

Take health for example. Most people in western society are slowly killing themselves with their lifestyle choices (i.e. poor diet and exercise), but in spite of them being overweight, uncomfortable, tired, and in pain, changing their habits permanently seems almost impossible. Sure people make short term adjustments, but eventually go right back to their same old ways. Until they have a health crisis and they are then prepared to change their behaviour to save their own life, if it’s not already too late, which all too often it already is unfortunately.

Well here’s the thing, your finances are no different. Until there’s a major financial crisis, most people aren’t willing to do what they need to to achieve their goals and dreams. And the unfortunate thing is that by the time most people get to that point, it’s too late and all is lost. Plus, when you’re in a state of extreme fear and panic, your vibration is going to repel money way faster than it can attract it; money will run for the hills in the face of that kind of negativity; it’s almost impossible to feel inspired and creative about your situation; your decision making is impaired by your stress and anxiety; and you’re so busy holding on tight in damage control, you just can’t possibly entertain a new approach to your problem.

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But this is where the story gets good. You see, when people lose it all, one of two things happens. Most will give up and do the bare minimum to get back on their feet, and then be content to live a life of quiet desperation and permanent struggle, forgetting all about their goals and dreams, settling for frustration and discontent because the alternative is all too hard.

However, for those of us who would rather die than settle for a life half lived and who have a steely sense of determination, this event will change our lives forever and we will never look back.

Look at it this way. Once you’ve lost it all, you have nothing left to lose, right? And having faced your greatest fear and survived the event, it no longer has the same power over you. You went there and the world did not end. It sucked, but you got through it and now you want to make sure you never end up back there again. You’re not interested in playing it safe any more, you just want to get the job done. Like ripping the band-aid off quickly!

So that’s why so many people go through the worst in order to create the best. But, and here is the best part of the story, you don’t have to make it so hard. You can choose to leave all your negative belief systems and conditioning behind now and rip the band aid off quickly. It’s going to take a really big decision on your part, but the alternative is not all that great is it?

Stop playing it safe and make the decision to do whatever it takes to get you to where you want to be. Invest in becoming the person you need to be to live those big dreams. As long as you are absolutely committed to your goal, you will never regret it.

The balls in your court and you have 3 choices:

1. Take the road of many other entrepreneurs and play it safe until you lose everything before you make the decision to do whatever it takes.

2. Decide to give up and live a life of quiet desperation with no hope of ever realizing your goals and dreams.

3. Rip the band-aid off quickly now and do whatever it takes to achieve your goals and dreams, leaving behind all your limiting beliefs and negative conditioning, taking some risk and making the decision to go for it with everything you’ve got until it’s done!

If you want some help with that, and you haven’t already, register for the free wealth and success video series available here: www.consciouswealthinstitute.com where you will learn how to use one of the most powerful breakthrough tools on the planet and experience some of the most profound healing as well.

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Nov 08

Do You Want To Get Rich Quick…….

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Success , Wealth

…….OR Do You Want Lasting Wealth, Happiness & Freedom?

Because the truth is , if you’re looking for a ‘get rich quick’ solution, the odds are you will be very disappointed.

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There are stories out there of people who find ‘the magic formula’ and make a lot of money in a very short space of time, but here’s the truth about those solutions that no-one wants to tell you. In almost all of these cases either they took several years preparing for and creating a vehicle to bring in the cash, they made a lot of money, and then lost it almost as quickly afterwards, or, although they’re wealthy financially, they’re left feeling empty, miserable and unfulfilled.

Did you know that more than 80% of people who win a lot of money end up right back where they started or even worse of and often within 2 years of winning the money! It’s because they’re belief systems wouldn’t allow them to remain wealthy. Is that what you really want?

And if you think about it, how many of those ‘get rich quick’ stories that you hear are from people trying to sell you a product or service which apparently helped to create that wealth? And what percentage of people who buy what’s on offer end up re-creating that same success? My prediction is very, very few (if any!).

If you desire lasting wealth, health, happiness and freedom, then you must change your consciousness. You can have it all , but that won’t happen overnight. And then, once you change your consciousness, there is no end to the ways in which you can create wealth and attract money. It will come effortlessly to you and your success won’t rely on one particular solution, technique or product. You will be hard wired to create wealth and stay wealthy as well as have great relationships, fabulous health, be happy no matter what and have the most powerful sense of freedom that no amount of money can ever give you.

Conscious Wealth is a state of being, not a state of having, and it comes from the inside out.

Wanting riches quickly leads to rash decisions, a string of failures, disappointment, bewilderment, frustration and a whole plethora of other negative emotions and belief systems. Most people end up giving up on their dream and on themselves. It’s a road that could cost you a lot more than you realize.

I’m not saying you can’t be truly wealthy on all levels, and relatively quickly. Just not overnight, and not before you change your consciousness around money. There are many ways to do this. As you’re probably aware, my favorite methods of changing consciousness and belief systems about anything is through Emotional Freedom Technique and Sound Healing.

If you want to attract money and lots of it, you must release the desperation, frustration, anxiety and stress around money. These emotions will repel money indefinitely. EFT is fantastic for this. Try an exercise where you write down what you’re afraid of happening if you don’t get money fast. And then what will happen. And then what. And then what. Keep trying this until you get to your core fear and tap on that until the fear is completely gone. Then see if there is something else and tap on that. Keep doing this exercise until your fear is completely gone.

Also, you may have to compromise short term by taking a part time job doing something you don’t necessarily want to to take the pressure off financially to give you some breathing space to create a more healthy feeling and consciousness around money so you are free to attract and create more of it.

If financially you’re in a really difficult place right now then the slightest positive change in your financial circumstances will bring relief which will give you space and peace of mind to move up again, and then again and then again. Do whatever it takes, ethically of course, that will take the pressure off you financially. Once you can breathe, inspiration, opportunity and fortune will build upon itself. When it’s not just about the money, that’s when magic happens and this is the way to create true, lasting conscious wealth.

Dream big, aim big, and set yourself up for success by creating a solid foundation and taking it one step at a time, attending to every part of the process deliberately.

And my final piece of advice is to follow your passion, because then you will never work another day in your life. Always listen to your heart when it comes to making those decisions about your long term financial future. You’re immediate financial situation may require a short term compromise, but think of it in those terms, as a stepping stone to your ultimate freedom.

Mar 26

When Giving Up Is Your Best Chance for Success

By Marguerita Vorobioff | Success

I became very emotional when I made this video and it’s because I’m giving up. I know I’m always saying never, ever give up. But is there ever a time when giving up is the best thing you can do? What if, in order to succeed, you had to give up?

No, I’m not talking about giving up on yourself, or your dreams. Never ever give up on those! But sometimes we have to give up on our attachment to the way we think our lives should be in order to let in something even better.

And this is something I have recently done and it has been one of the most challenging and yet the most enabling moments of my life!

20 something years ago (I’m not revealing the ‘something’ bit), I was accepted into an introductory program at the Queensland Conservatorium of Music to study voice and my dream was to become an Opera Singer, internationally recognized and singing all around the world!

As hard as I worked, the Conservatorium staff, for whatever reason, did not warm to me and in spite of passing all of my exams I was not re-admitted to the following years degree program. I was absolutely inconsolable. All those years ago I did not understand about the Law of Attraction and the plans The Universe had for me. I loved being a student at the Con and at that time I felt like all my dreams had been ripped away from me. Though I never gave up on them and continued to pursue my dream through formal training outside the Conservatorium for many years.

Anyway, long story short, I have never given up on my dream to be on stage singing in front of thousands of people, in an already well established industry. So much so that I’m almost ashamed to admit, I even went to the extent of auditioning for several reality TV shows like Australia’s Got Talent and the X Factor. I got some great feedback and even got through a couple of the initial rounds on a couple of occasions, but the last time a few weeks ago I finally heard what I had not wanted to hear. “You have a beautiful voice, but this show is not for you. You are not what we are looking for”.

Well, der!!!!!

Of course, in my heart I already knew this! I just had not wanted to admit it because, let’s face it, at my age the chances of getting into any industry at the ground floor are pretty limited and I felt like these reality shows were my last chance.

Then as I was leaving the audition guttered (yes, I was too attached to the outcome, tsk, tsk!), I was dwelling on my shattered dream to become an internationally appreciated singer and I had an awakening moment that made me start to laugh.

I’m already recognized by thousands of people in dozens of countries for my Sound Healing. My podcasts are heard around the globe and there are other avenues where people access my healing all the time!! I had been so attached to how my dream should look – standing in front of a packed stadium singing commercial songs of some description – I had failed to see that I have already realized a part of my dream.

AND since then I have also recognized that I can still realize my dream of singing to an audience of thousands at fabulous events, just with my sound healing, not as a commercial entertainer.

Now you may be thinking, “Man, how dumb is this girl that she took all this time to figure that out!”. And you’re right. There are many people who would have seen this for years and not understood why I hadn’t. The truth is that the reason I couldn’t see the wood for the trees is because I was blinded by my vision of how realizing my dream would look when I got there. I have been way too rigid and specific about how I wanted it all to turn out and not allowing the Universe to deliver my dream to me in a way that is even better than I imagined.

So I have given up on the way I expected my dream was going to turn out and I am surrendering to the Universe presenting opportunities to me to share my gift in a far more powerful and beautiful way than I had been envisioning. And the best part is that the moment I did that, ideas and opportunities began to flow that I know are finally helping my dream to come true.

Now it’s your turn. What is not working that, if you give up on it, will help you get unstuck and move forward. It may be an aspect of your vision, or a limiting decision you made about yourself, or lifestyle choices you are making that are having an adverse affect on your health. Or is it something else?

So, never give up on you. And never, ever give up on your dreams. And be specific on how you want your life to look. But give up on exactly how it should turn up, because you cannot possibly foresee what magic the Universe has in store for you and how it could look even better than you have ever imagined!

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